Self-Love is the ‘saving grace’ for the transition into the new paradigm
SELF LOVE NOW excerpt from author Anaiya Sophia
Self Love is so essential right now for humanity as it is the ‘saving grace’ that will birth us from one paradigm to the other. Learning how to comfort, listen and counsel ourselves is the crucial medicine that will create and sustain real and meaningful relationships.
Without Self Love we are doomed. Just look at our past (present) models of relationships and marriage. What we see is endless compromise, people pleasing, half-living and lots of heartache and angst. With Self Love we can nurture, comfort, bless and inspire ourselves to reach for higher choices and more healthy environments, that sustain our safety, integrity and creativity.
Self Love is the barometer of integrity and innocence.
In other words — clean living. There are no secrets, manipulations, guilt trips or blame, well, there might be a bit of that in the beginning, but with some good ole Self Loving, all of that will become a thing of the past!
This doesn’t mean we become selfish, independent and self-important. No, not at all. It simply means we remember that we need to comfort, heal, bless and care for ourselves and one another in a beautiful and real way. The deeper we love our true self, our innocent essence, the more sincere and joyful our love for others will become.
Usually in relationships when we feel hurt by the other one we often seek ways of getting back by punishing them for not taking care of us properly. With Self Love, a huge dollop of humility and the earnestness to reach beyond our conditioning and mean-spiritedness, we will instead turn inwards, to the goodness of our own hearts for consolation and wisdom.
Another way Self Love will change the way we conduct ourselves in relationships is in the area of abuse and dishonour.
The more we love ourselves the more we will hear the voice of our own innocence asking for safety and wellbeing. Slowly the exquisite inner voice of goodness will start to speak with a kind-hearted rightness to make choices that will keep us safe and in a trustworthy environment.
Without Self Love we will carry on getting abused and hurt, staying in co-dependent relationships built upon the entanglements of control and fear.
Self Love, consulting our innocence, plenty of joy and fun, along with not taking ourselves or the other one too seriously are the crucial ingredients for birthing the New Paradigm.
Then we can ask ourselves the questions:
· How much more can I love you?
· How much more can I love myself?
· How much more can I love us?
And get some really sexy answers.
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During a ‘sharing circle’ Simon invited a spontaneous question; “Why is Self Love so important today?”. He was profoundly moved by the answers of those in the circle, so much so that over time that movement continued to birth an idea of a book of 54 diversely selected co-creators expressing their individual answers to the same broad and important universal question. Now you have the wisdom of these divine beings all in one place. Notice anyone you know? — Enjoy xxx
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